Some of yall need to realize that yall are USERS. Yall don’t know how to be good friends, good partners, or good family members because you’re always looking for what you can get out of people. Yall take advantage of people’s kindness, love, resources, support, connections, etc.. instead of genuinely showing up for them!
The support system in the UK is actually so fucked up. I've paid SO MUCH TAX my entire self-employed working life and the most I am entitled to on maternity leave is £700 and something a month. I literally pay more than that a month in tax. Doesn't even cover my mortgage.
I can see who’s never seen or grew up in a house with real marriages before. Because yes your wife using your money cool, but your wife using your money for her friends would absolutely not be okay