my lick back is a muthafucker knowing they lost somebody real… ion gotta argue or fight do none of that.. you seeing me & realizing I did my absolute best to be good for you & all you did was play …. Is what’s gone eat you up ! My vibe is unmatched & I stand on that !
normalize seeing someone's lack of effort as their lack of interest in YOU and your lack of importance to them regardless of what they tell you or how much you love them
I think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser to someone with more boundaries it’s so weird, because it’s hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re just listening to your own feelings because you’re so used to this & only thinking about others
A man that won’t dim your light. A man who’s good to you purposely. A man that’s true to his word. A man that can’t go a day w/o talking to you. A man that craves both your heart and touch. A man that’s not for everybody. & A man that doesn’t mind being there when you need him.
@KandonDortch Man if this ain’t the truth!! To everyone who’s struggling with this…. As someone who’s been through it or still is, you should cut your losses asap bc the longer you hold on to this person the more you will lose yourself and go crazy. This person doesn’t care about you anymore
a brutal reality is the way people move on after mistreating you. they’re not sitting up in a room feeling bad thinking about you. most of the time they move on and live perfectly fine after doing you dirty. so release yourself from the shackles of waiting for someone to regret how they mistreated you cause it won’t ever happen.
I can’t express this enough, you have NO IDEA what other people carry with them everyday. You have NO IDEA what someone’s life is like. Don’t create more pain & stress to others. Be kind. BE genuine. Stop being so mean to people to fulfill whatever it is you don’t like about you
it’s crazy thinking about how much better your mental health would be if you hadn’t met certain people, so fucking horrible and unfair that someone can just come into your life & fuck everything up for you then just leave.