you have to talk about that hurt until it goes away. there’s no other way to move on than to keep talking about it. eventually, one day, you realize it’s all gone. it’ll pass, and it’ll never come back.
ngl, i feel like everything that happened this year needed to happen to allow me to see everybody ain't for me, learning to set boundaries, learning to stop over sharing and over playing my part. sht ain't break me, IT MADE ME!!!
I got a job. I got a home to live in. I’m not missing any meals. Bills are being paid. I got a car to drive. Family doing fine. I got breath in my body. It’s more than enough reason to tell the Lord thank you 🩷🙏🏾.
At almost 30, everything DO be that deep. Who I surround myself with, who I fw, who I love, what I eat, what I do, where I go etc. If it’s not aligning with what I need/want there’s no room for it.
everybody talks about cutting people off, but nobody really talks about the grief that comes with having to stand firm on that decision, knowing it’s not what you wanted but what was necessary for your well being
Iont sneak diss no bitch I consider my friend when I got a issue I’m bringing it straight to ur phone or face 🥱once u do some internet shit with me ur done , Iont like outside bitches in any of me and mine business 💯
At 26, I had a career plan.
At 34, I quit my corporate job forever.
At 38, I have no rules and am free.
If you’re feeling lost, read this.
15 life lessons I wish I knew sooner:
I deserve to be loved to the fullest extent. I deserve to be shown I am cared for. I deserve healthy communication. I deserve to be valued. I deserve to be more than just a “what can you do for me”. I deserve all that and more. I am worth it.
“You teach people how to treat you.” That advice changed my life. When I started setting boundaries and standing up for myself, I realized I deserved more than bare-minimum respect