Sam

Marketing, psychology, art of being a man without manosphere nonsense , just authenticity. Sharing my growth in SMMA, relationships, mental clarity and Christ

[Sam @SamuelLearns]

During narcissistic abuse and after during the initial stages of healing, your self-esteem begins healing (with the right steps) and you gain a new perspective of yourself previously that was once tarnished to you. Once your sense of self makes the shift and you begin to understand the narcissist, you will see a pattern that shows that the projection of you they instilled in your thoughts through their actions was actually what THEY needed you to be for their sense of self to function. Your sense of confidence in who you are and can be was never actually mirrored properly.

This distorted reality was the driving point of many of their behaviors and was the very reason they needed to play games and seek validation through belittling you and compliance to their version of reality (that of course puts you at the bottom). I find that in real time, when I look back on what I was told I was, never came to fruition and was always somehow related to their own faults they had. It's why their version of you is always built of hypocrisy; your "faults" are so often just things that actually apply to them! Narcissism awareness is the first goal. Step into your power, because a healing journey doesn't require the validation of approval of anyone! It may seem hard to understand when you still haven't healed, but one day you will see what I mean.

Check out this video I made on the subject ~~ Thank you

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@peaceful_bully Betchu he gets more hos than u tho

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@Dunhacking @muheediva01 Oh yeah once you do they hate you forever. They will usually discard you once they seen you wont fold anymore and accept their crap. Like they literally cannot forget about it and will forever hate you

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@ridhima_z That was probably just a particularly cunning, better controlled narcissist. A lot of narcissists are very obviously a narcissist and are obviously manipulative and exploitative or just generally bad people. Doesnt mean they arent narcissist, just less controlled

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@DemonFramed Sorry but that's objectively false. I know a lot of success stories of people from backgrounds that aren't rich and they are decent people. I don't know what level of rich you mean, but it happens a lot that good people become richer than they were born.

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@realMaalouf Who is he to tell someone they cant pray? Thats ridiculous

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@RealBoon46 Fake ai

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@prettycritical Honestly not really. People really just dont give a shit about u

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@PAcumbria Often? Thats their entire schtick, its a given. Like saying an addict will spend more energy on their DOC than cutting their lawn

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Im sorry but-what part of "evil witch mother and henchman dad" am I "projecting" my interpretation onto? Its pretty straight foward, and in fact, you are the one projecting on to what I said, considering you said "often the wife makes decisions" which is something I literally never said wasnt the case. I laid out biblical marriage where the man leads, where I specifically said it doesnt mean he "controls" her or "dominates" her. Not to mention , saying a blanket statement about the husband being "imcompetent" is the textbook definition of you projecting your anecdotal experience or thoughts considering making blanket statements like that is ridiculous.

You can believe what you want, but the healthiest marriages have man as the head, where the woman plays a different equally important role, and sometimes makes decisions sure, but that doesnt change what im talking about. Be intellectually honest and don't throw around terms you're clearly doing, and if you can't tell then try to assess your thoughts more.

Seen too many examples of the witchy mom and doormat husband and what it leads to, and its not good. Sure it can "work" as in the family survives, but it inevitably leads to problems and isnt optimal like the way Christ intends it

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@omgsidewalks Its called that this is the 5th time this week ive seen this exact tweet, totalling like 10 times ever. Im pretty sure you were one of them. Go check the others and get your answer

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@happyhorse000 @noampomsky

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In my experience they hate those who question them or embarass them even when its on accident. Had one who I "contradicted" (professionally) in a meeting and he never moved on or forgot. It was pathetic. They usually have vindictive type narcissism where they require extreme submission and any time their ego feels hurt they cant let go and obsess about it. They will do anything to write you up and get you back

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@ItsMissShorty @The_Exit_Code Wellll not to he a stickler, but thats something said alot but is misleading cause yes psychopaths are self orietented and naturally only think about themselves, they dont have pathological narcissism aka npd. Npd is different than trait narcissism.

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@femiiiszn Not neccesarily. Infact a lot of bs in life we recieve is due to people not having the emotional understanding for us in a situation, aka they dont empathize with us properly. Not that that means they arent accountable or aware that what they are doing is wrong in some way

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@Topuriailia This is just like sean vs chimaev "beef". Yall will be best friends and hug it out after the fight and you know it

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The BIGGEST is when you stop playing the role they assigned to you, which most of the time has them as the authority/"better" in some way, just like you said. When you stop playing the role, it usually involves setting boundaries, defying their fake authority, and commit to being an equal in the relationship. Once you do that, you automatically do like most of the list you posted naturally.

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@TheGermanicist Cmon man. Im sorry to tell you, but its time to come over to Jesus's side and not follow smith any longer. Its bunk, and you gotta just make the change and not look back.

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@Will420774 @Ginastewart28 Dude its literally an AI picture.