No Dave I like you sooooo much that’s why I can’t date you outside of the club 🥺🥺 if you take me to BeniHana I’m afraid I’ll fall too hard for you and get hurt
It’s called a toxic connection or a toxic bond, and it means where somebody is so attached to the good parts of someone that even though they know the TERRIBLE parts.. they will stay with that person even if they’re unhappy