If your partner is struggling, having bad days, doing less, sleeping more, I can not stress this enough. PICK UP THEIR SLACK and do NOT throw it in their face or complain about it. Do it with extra love and a smile on your face because I promise you they need it.
We can't think of a more beautiful background for birding than Colombia's majestic Sierra Nevada de Santa Marta mountains: the world's tallest coastal mountains and home to a whole host of endemics. What a view!