Leader isn’t just about holding frame.
It’s making sure the people inside the frame still know they’re safe with you.
Leadership is self mastery plus connection.
Attractive women test hard upfront. Don’t fold or capitulate to her frame, but don’t react in a judging way. Call out bratty behavior then ground her in the fact that you still choose her regardless. That’s how she feels seen, and so her guard drops.
How you behave under pressure about what you did is 1000x more important than what you did.
If she watches you arrive at the truth instead of stand in it from the start, she loses all respect
@MrE_mssg Emotional confrontation is where ppl fuk up. People learn from simple n calm correction . Don’t do that again, that don’t fly, not how we move etc. not u did this it made me feel this, so hopefully u do this. Have to cut thru their reactive programming