I’ve done pretty well lately and had more sitting around than I actually needed, so back in June I sent my brother $12k and asked him to get it to them somehow without making a big deal about where it came from.
Now I don’t care nor am I mad that I’m not the best she’s ever been with, it’s unrealistic to expect to be the best when by the time she was 19 when we got together she had already slept with 30+ different men.