@Sunflowerreal Skit or not it happens. Ngihlala ekasi, my daughter had never taken a taxi locally. It was a mission to get her to take one cos she was afraid so I had to take her with me and teach her. She got used to it but still prefers I drive her around
@IthabelengThabs Kubi babes hlala until something better comes if it's that bad stock pile, buy beef, pork and lamb for a year. Have enough savings to sustain you for a year or so and a side hustle before you leave.
@gala_tweets@nokwandamhlong0 It's hard to accept, eventually we will but not until we exhausted all the options. No one will replace her father and father figure has always been there but we can't stop holding her accountable for her actions because she doesn't have a father.
@gala_tweets@nokwandamhlong0 Her father is late, she never got to meet him to remember but we have his pics to show her. Her paternal side has always been involved and lacks nothing. She called her grandad dad and we're a close family none of us did this when growing up.
@gala_tweets@nokwandamhlong0 My father is old so is her grandad, one uncle on her paternal side, his always available when we look for her. Trust me she's a princess but ushayiwe, treated like a prison, therapy, police nothing works. Every Friday you know what's up until mid week when or if we find her
@mncengubane@nokwandamhlong0 This hits home cos every scream at night when she's not here we wake up and think ukephi, was she the one screaming? Funeral cover up to date but I don't want to think about that okwamanje
@Saint_S7ven It's not something we can control cos she has to go to school and when you pick her up she's not there. We've tried everything including the police but kuyafana. It's easy to say something when you're not facing that situation
@noaron_2018@nokwandamhlong0 Present, she's soft spoken and tired of hitting her. I stepped in with gentle parenting and resorted to hush punishments and therapy, nothing worked. Sent her to her paternal side and she's giving the old people a headache and π. Nathi asisazi grandad now has a heart condition
@KhananiShingan1 Don't fall for the payday hype, let debit orders go through and start spending after you've allocated whatever remains to your needs. Then you can splash on that R200 without guilt. Don't buy groceries monthly, stock pile instead and be friends with your local butcher.
@nokwandamhlong0 She disappears during the day, at night or jumps over a fence. Nizothi bekala dololo akasekho. Try calling her and you'll be sent to voicemail and she'll turn off her location.
@JoburgMpumi@nokwandamhlong0 I'm no therapist but nothing is working with her, she's manipulative and excuses her actions cos her father died after she was born. She doesn't see anything you try through she always has excuses and answers for everything. Mina I'm tired bakithi