El Cerebri Jr

sleepiphillic bookphobic
M.D
Ambivert
Muslimah
she/Her/cis-woman
wife, mother

[El Cerebri Jr @seemzDr]

@AbuMustaeina The man will never agree to an "employer employee situation "
What he wants is TOTAL CONTROL. What @YusufAsunmogejo suggested would likely work if the man didn't threaten with divorce. Maybe if he sat his wife down to suggest and dicuss business. Maybe.. but he wants CONTROL

[El Cerebri Jr @seemzDr]

@Storex_Akeem @egi_nupe There is no harm in helping the husband. She can choose to give him, not even loan sef, GIVE him enough support to start his own business. She doesn't have to crush herself to lift him up

[El Cerebri Jr @seemzDr]

@Storex_Akeem @egi_nupe The tone with which she posted "he threatened to divorce me if I don't hand over the business" is already a sign of future oppression if she does and she is now financially dependent 100% on him.
Thats what she has to guard against and going legal is the only way

[El Cerebri Jr @seemzDr]

@egi_nupe Nobody, disrespects my husband , even my parents and vice versa. She caused it. As much as we ask a man to protect his wife from family feuds, its the same for the woman.

Her mum had overstayed her welcome !

[El Cerebri Jr @seemzDr]

@egi_nupe Tbh,this is probably the most viable solution. If she insists on staying in tht marriage due to reasons known best to her. Let whatever transaction/decison be legal and be in writing

[El Cerebri Jr @seemzDr]

@Nigeriangod_ Basically, the difference between a MUSLIM and non MUSLIM is the solat.
Reason is, as my opening statement, the prayer, if done properly, is meant to be the one thing that keeps you steadfast with your relationship with Allah and helps you to move away from bad acts.

[El Cerebri Jr @seemzDr]

@Nigeriangod_ -> punished for his sin if he doesn't repent from them. If he prays ,he has a higher chance if sincerely repenting and changing his ways.
Unlike someone who doesn't pray at all.

Someone who doesn't pray his solat isn't a Muslim, no matter the name, behavior or his alignment

[El Cerebri Jr @seemzDr]

@FinestDoveTruth A quick one please, I sent a DM, can you reply please?

[El Cerebri Jr @seemzDr]

@ronkecarew and as you rightly said, she is entitled to her shares if the intention abintio is that she will statutorily own a share if she contributes. I'm that case, the reciept and everything has to be Mr and Mrs YOUR NAME EXPLICITLY

[El Cerebri Jr @seemzDr]

@ronkecarew Tbh, i think another way to look at it is calling men to OWN THEIR RESPONSIBILITY FULLY. I get the remarks about " women trying to tie the husband down " blabla

[El Cerebri Jr @seemzDr]

@bello_shukrah Exactly, it is screaming "future oppression" if she tries it

[El Cerebri Jr @seemzDr]

@karats_uv_fun @usmanomolara3 You just demonstrated how low your EQ and IQ is. Tbh, i feel pity for those thatvhave no choice but to have an encounter with you daily. How much of a torture they must be going through daily.

[El Cerebri Jr @seemzDr]

@Jojo_agboola I personally don't need their benefits tbh

[El Cerebri Jr @seemzDr]

@karats_uv_fun @usmanomolara3 You didn't answer my question

[El Cerebri Jr @seemzDr]

@karats_uv_fun @usmanomolara3 If a 31 year old dies, is she termed a young or old death?

[El Cerebri Jr @seemzDr]

@drifeleah This right here
Its even worse with LTFT and having new rotations cos you have to literally pray that your NWDs are stable and continous.
AL are majorly around child care emergency plans. Its exhausting tbh

[El Cerebri Jr @seemzDr]

@realHazeezat Ameeen