A real sign of healing is when you stop taking everything personally. You begin to see that people act from their own patterns, their own wounds, their own stories. Their behavior is about them, not you. And the moment you understand that, life feels lighter.
Discernment is real. You can hear stuff that's not being said! You can feel things and don't even have to be in close proximity! You can detect a lie from miles away! Sometimes it feels like a blessing and a curse because that third eye be awake and sometimes it be the closest people to you. I know a lie, I know a bad attitude, I can feel a shift in energy without hard evidence and it's something I just can't shake. That's why I'm so big on peace and walk away easily from things and people that don't bring it.
Do not let the illusion of urgency in this world deceive you. Slowness is sacred, and honoring your own pace is medicine. There is no rush to arrive. Take your time and allow life to meet you wherever you are.
Franz Kafka: "I ran from love because I knew it would destroy me."
Fyodor Dostoevsky: "I ran into love because I needed it to destroy who I used to be."