if you live in the US and don’t already have one pls do your future self a favor and go open a roth IRA and deposit some money into it every month and invest it. you can withdraw your contributions at any time tax-free if you need emergency money, and earnings withdrawn later will be tax-free for qualified distributions. your future self will thank you for being able to retire earlier i promise
@jas_d_barbie i mean if you think about it this is almost always the reason people start therapy. whether it’s bc of a romantic relationship or a childhood wound, it’s because you loved someone and they hurt you in some way and you haven’t been able to process that pain in a healthy way yet