This is a coping mechanism. Even if you think you "used him for his body" it doesn't create any emotional or social devastation for him. Men weren't raised like that. It means nothing to him. At the end of the day he goes online or into male chat groups and says "i fucked her".
isn't it funny how being anti-cop & anti-ice is a universal statement but being anti-military is a taboo that will get you called a classist. isn't it interesting how we only judge systems of power when they harm americans but they are not that bad if they affect the global south