i still can’t deal with the fact that they will never return to me again like wdym outlander is over???? in my head we are in droughtlander and they are filming s9 🥲
It feels so weird to not give a fuck about eurovision. For my entire life I loved this week so much. But i genuinely feel nothing now. No excitement, no hype, no joy. That genocidal state took something that brought us so much joy and connection and completely ruined it.
ser fangirl se divide en 2 etapas, la primera es durante la niñez/adolescencia que es cuando haces la conexión más fuerte con el artista, casi toda tu identidad gira en base al artista y la segunda es en la adultez, tu propio dinero, vas a conciertos con mayor libertad, viajas a otros países, conoces gente etc etc…. al final el ser fangirl no desaparece solo se va adaptando a las nuevas tu
Lo buena que era la vida cuando codeabamos el html de tumblr para poner una barra de música con nuestras canciones favoritas. Cuando este mundo todavía tenía alma.
Girls in their 30s be like, “OMG I’m so behind,” but meanwhile they’ve healed their inner child, stopped people pleasing, left that toxic job, started therapy, learned to enjoy their own company, travel when they want, and actually like themselves now. Like sis. You’re not behind at all. You’re evolving.
I wrote an essay about this long ago, about the 90s photo series by Adrienne Salinger “In my Room: Teenagers in their bedrooms” that catalogued all of the unique and colourful room decorations that reflected various subcultures and personalities. Even as a younger millennial this was starting to fade when I recollect going to my friend’s houses.
My thesis was essentially that online life had migrated youth culture inward, and so much of one’s style and personality is contained in those digital interfaces that reflecting one’s personality and identity outwardly into daily life became irrelevant.