@oiseoje_ The trick is to find a dinstintc feature to highlight e.g
“Yo I think you a great person, but I’m into light skin
Or I like big nose
Or I like smaller legs
Or I thought you was taller
@ruheisher They are trying to make it a gender war
Even if a male friend comes to your house for 3 days
There is always something a male friend would do for You out of their own will
You might want to cook and they willl suggest to contribute to the finanace