I’ve legit seen a wife who hasn’t had sex with her husband in 5 years be genuinely shocked and crushed that he’s having an affair. This level of cognitive dissonance is bugged out to me 🤣
I know a guy that broke up with his gf of 3 months cause she didn’t get him anything for his birthday. He said he has experienced what it feels to have a woman spend on him and he refuses to settle for less 😭😭
When a woman feels anxious about her partner's female friends, late nights, or phone habits, it is immediately validated as "women's intuition" and he is told to respect her boundaries. But the exact second a man expresses discomfort about her entertaining certain male orbiters or moving recklessly, he is immediately gaslit, labeled "deeply insecure," and accused of trying to control her.