@MichaelP89048@Jassmini2 This type of woman or a wife as you stated is far and few between these days my granddad did the same thing, but my grandma made sure even us grand kids were taken care of to the extent they could with granddads money. So I understand your point, but as someone else said a wife
@HeyyDiva@_BlessedKingg_@ItsKingSlime He
He was fine yall need to get over yourselves. The only thing you can control is yourself not how someone reacts to your BS. He handled it correctly
@KLeeeyah@ObaEdo_1@Fabulous_feran He did just as a man I can guarantee that you saw him get quiet, you saw him start to pull away. That’s how you even found out he was cheating because there was a change, but instead of YOU communicating, I’d bet you told the bestie first. You refused to see it.
@otokyo However if you were and you still chose to break a family to chase a false sense of happiness or “live your best life” or even for financial issues (anything outside of mental/physical abuse or infidelity) you just spat in your parents face.
@otokyo It used to be finances, but now it’s conditioning. Women are essentially incentivized and praised for leaving a marriage for ANY reason, some valid, most are not. Ppl are not being raised by strong parents who understand the value of fighting for family…
@mattvanswol@NoContextHumans You’re my one wife and I your one husband. We have vows to one another. Based on the conditioning it sounds off to us, but for all coupling animals in nature this is basic biology. Most won’t agree and I can understand that, but it’s not as natural as we think.
@mattvanswol@NoContextHumans We put them 1st together, we’re conditioned to give up on each other and put the kids before the life long vows we made, now in some scenarios yes that should be, this isn’t one of them, save the wife together we put all we have into saving the kids, but we can make more…
@jedtrek81@NoContextHumans The kids come before the man in every way except him providing due to this conditioning. We can make more children, you’re my only wife…well unless you have multiple wives, another conversation for another post however.
@jedtrek81@NoContextHumans Biologically as well, we’ve been conditioned to put the kids before everyone else, but your spouse is who you would die for. It’s not about dumping as someone said it’s about the legacy you vowed to give to that individual. This is why men don’t like dating women w/ kids…
@ellyserwaaa This doesn’t signify the decisions of a good woman. So if the actual men are saying yes it has nothing to do with shallow and more to do with discernment
@NeverteIImeodd All of this men should help anyway is killing me. I recall a man dashing across the street scooping up a woman who was about to kiss a truck face on and is currently in jail fighting an assault case, because she didn’t ask him to touch her…so all this “made up scenario” and ..