Ra'Shanda Bailey

[🔮✨ @TheOracleReadsU]

Life is currently teaching you to be as selfish as everyone else. For too long, you may have believed that love meant constant sacrifice. Now life is showing you that the people who truly value you won't expect you to carry everything alone.

[lets heal and recover @recovery_your]

Sometimes solitude is not a choice..
It’s a fucking survival tactic…

[Moral Philosophy @ML_Philosophy]

Cutting off family/friends who gossip about you and judge you during the hardest season of your life is veryyy valid.

[Reads with Ravi @readswithravi]

I’m in love with this sentence:

“The degree to which a person can grow is directly proportional to the amount of truth he can accept about himself without running away.”

[princess mikaila 💚 🐅 @awesomemikaila]

Built this self esteem brick by brick

[Brother Legend @BigBroLGND]

WE KEEP TELLIN YALL WHITE WOMEN ARE NOT YOUR ALLY

[Dion @dionrs94]

@ApexSapien I know plenty of guys who literally don’t know how to cook, clean, or do their own laundry.

SERIOUSLY.

This guy’s on some bullshit and you can tell that he’s single laying up in his bed recording himself with those dollar store quality pillows.

[N C @LibraWife2010]

@ApexSapien Men cant even wipe their own azzez. Men are the ones crying about women. Women are happy being cat ladies, as the men characterized them.
But carry on.

[Fabula Rasa 02 @fabularasa02]

@ApexSapien And yet, the incessant bitching that women don’t want to be you losers’ unpaid bangmaids goes unabated 😒
You want a sex worker and house cleaner there are services you can hire for both.
You want a loving partnership—learn to like sucking dick bc you losers DO NOT like women.

[𝓲𝓬𝓮 @be_like_ice]

The autistic experience of being the safe space for people who are not a safe space for you.

[♡⃝ @wine_x13]

Porn has rotted your brain so much you call women 'vanilla' for not wanting to be hit in the bedroom. Porn has rotted your brain so much you think a normal looking v4gina is 'disgusting'. Porn has rotted your brain so much you think all boobs are supposed to be symmetrical and perky. POrn has rotted your brain so much you think all nipples have to be "the size of a penny. Porn has rotted your brain so much you think a flat stomach is the standard.
Porn has rotted your brain so much you think calling women derogatory names in the bedroom is sexy. Porn has rotted your brain so much you think s3x has to be crazy and rough to be enjoyable.

[Ra'Shanda Bailey @Shanda_Ro]

@MuskieDave54 @wine_x13 Never forget that men use sex not for exploring true and genuine burning desires or equally pleasing their partners, but as an act to dehumanize a woman sexually and dominate them in a degrading manner to fulfill their own insecurities. Men hate women and want to humiliate them!

[zayden @pemilo123]

Being neurodivergent is when everyone is watching you get bullied by someone who is hitting way below the belt, crushing your soul for no reason, and no one steps in. But the minute you defend yourself with something you think is unremarkable yet kinda snarky, the whole crowd turns on you like "Whoa! Too far! | can't believe you just said that! That's so mean!"

[Ra'Shanda Bailey @Shanda_Ro]

@firemadeher 777

[feyisayo 💸 @feyiszn]

If I cut you off, your success later would not make me regret it. Good for you, but you’re still a terrible person in my book.

[EarthtoGazelle @EarthToGazelle]

Spanking children is a sure way to teach them that sexual abuse is okay. There is nothing normal about pulling down the pants of child and hitting them in the behind while they scream no and try to get away. You’re teaching them that no matter how loud they scream and how much they cry and try to get away that they have to just take it. See how that mimics rape. And even worse, parents will tell their kids “I love you” right after. Teaching children that their abusers can love them still. Then people will deadass have the nerve to be confused as to why adults get into abuse cycles that literally mimic the same abuse that their parents inflicted upon them.

[𝗠𝘂𝗵𝗲𝗲 ♛ @muheediva01]

Why do people who partake in group bullying against you always try to come back years later solo acting friendly like nothing happened? 🤔

[𝐋𝐞𝐠𝐞𝐧𝐝 @Be_like_legend]

Someone said being neurodivergent means that no one listens to you because you're right too far in advance and then, when it's finally come to fruition, the common law statute of limitations for remembering what someone else said a while ago has been surpassed so we don't even get to be told we were right. it's deeply unsatisfying