I cannot stress enough how important it is to speak up for yourself when someone is crossing your boundaries or dismissing your feelings. You are your biggest advocate. No one else can read your mind or feel what you feel.
I’m the girl who handles all her hard days in silence. I don’t complain much, I don’t always ask for help, & I rarely vent. I carry my own weight & I’ll always move through life with that I’ll figure it out mindset.
She's getting distant with everyone because one night she sat back & noticed that most of the people she cares about don't care about her the same way, & that just doesn't sit right with her.
I dislike when people say "I know her, I went to school with her,” We graduated almost 10 years ago & you knew me as a teenager. I'm sure you can't even recall the last time you had a conversation with me.
You honestly have no idea about my life or transition into womanhood. So no you do not know me, you knew me.
I'm in love with this quote: 'If it doesn't happen the way you wanted, it will happen in a better way than you imagined.' That's the beauty of God's plan.
I wanna marry into a family that feels like a family. Sunday dinners, birthdays, holidays, random movie nights. I don’t want it to just be “us,” I want a whole village that feels like home
and next year, don’t be boring. stop trying to be mysterious because that’ll only bring misery. let people see you, let people know you, let people hold you, let people build villages with you.
& when it comes to me… Make sure you’re minding your business & not minding mine! Anything I do, decisions I make, who I fw, where I’m at, or what I’m doing! NOTHING that has to do with ME should concern ANYBODY! This is MY LIFE 🫧🫶🏾