No matter how accomplished you are, never look down on security guards, cleaners, or anyone earning an honest living. Respect isn’t determined by a job title. In them we see our parents, uncles, and aunts. Treat people with dignity, it costs nothing and says everything.
Sometimes I just lay on my bed and stare at the ceiling and talk to god about everything in my life that feels heavy and overwhelming…&In the mix of it all I still tell him that I trust him…nothing making sense right now I know it’s going to at the end
People don’t talk enough about how nice it is to feel sure in love. Not anxious. Not half-loved. Not almost chosen. Being assured they want you. No begging. No shrinking. No proving your worth. That kind of love is everything.
If you see this . This is a your sign! Your life will look completely different over the next few days. March is bringing in the breakthrough you’ve been praying and waiting for. The delay is finally OVER. Patience isn’t always easy but God’s timing is always perfect 𝐈𝐬𝐚𝐢𝐚𝐡 𝟒𝟎:𝟑𝟏 Your name is being mentioned in rooms you have never imagined. Doors are opening . God is aligning everything for your arrival. Amen!
I may be single on Valentine’s Day but at least I’m not getting cheated on. At least I’m not being emotionally abused. At least I’m not living in a constant state of flight or fight. At least I’m not being fed lies anymore. At least I’m not in the cycle anymore. A win is a win.
Soulmate so hard that it ends in marriage. They both needed each other and now we celebrate future Mr and Mrs Ngcukana. Halala! 😍💍🥹
See everything S1 of #InimbaMzansi here: https://t.co/j3QiWsJcF4
You call her toxic now.
But you met her when she was kind, open, and trusting. Before the lies. Before the betrayal. Before she had to protect herself from you. She became guarded because you kept hurting her.
She became reactive because you kept crossing lines. She became tired because she kept choosing you while you chose yourself. That wasn't toxicity. That was damage.
And expecting her to stay soft after everything you put her through is the real denial. You didn't lose a good woman. You changed her, then blamed her for the result.
You broke her trust, you bruised her heart, and now you're shocked she's not the same person you fell for.
Newsflash: she's not the one who's changed; your perspective has. You're seeing the effects of your actions and calling it her problem.
She's not toxic; she's wounded.
And instead of owning up to the hurt you caused, you're gaslighting her into thinking she's the flawed one.
Own it. You hurt someone who loved you, and now she's protecting herself from further pain.
That's not toxicity; that's self-preservation.
And if you can't see the damage you've done, that's on you.
Nobody really talks about how waiting on God is hard. Somedays you have it all together and some days you burst into tears wondering how long this season would take.