@sarfazee setuju bgttt. i don’t see why people make a big deal out of showing affection. hidup cuma sekali, and i’d rather be someone who loves openly than someone who’s always too afraid to show it. kalau memang sayang, ya tunjukin. never make someone feel silly for wanting to feel loved.
the fact that someone’s existence can bother others says a lot more about them than it ever will about that person. maybe instead of obsessing over someone else’s life, they should figure out why their own insecurities make them so bothered.
You can't fix how people perceive you. You can be your most authetnic self and still be misunderstood. Truth is... poeple don't sees you for who you actually are, they see you through their own experiences, insecurities, and expectations. Let them. And stop trying to change what they think about you. Protect your peace. And just stay true to yourself. That's all that matters. Let them think whatever they want.
@aldysuhanda_ udah menerapkan ini and honestly, best decision ever. funny how genuine concern can make u the bad person js bc u refuse to support choices u know aren’t good for them. but if agreeing with every bad decision makes sumone a good friend, i’m more than okay with not being one.
@maengoesteen and the funniest part is how they keep hiding behind the word “criticism” to disguise their obvious hatred. kalau memang kritik, ngga perlu sampai menyerang personal dan merendahkan sih. calling it criticism doesn’t make the hate any less obvious. embarrassing honestly.
@maengoesteen apalagi kalau yang ngehate sesama perempuan. perempuan yang harusnya bisa saling support malah sibuk menjatuhkan perempuan lain. couldn’t be me.