Mothers always teach their sons how to treat women.
I rarely see a father teaching her daughter how to treat men.
Most daughters today are taught to study and earn, to be strong and independent. They are taught what to expect from men, how to evaluate a good man.
But, they are rarely taught, how to treat the man.
Worse part, these untrained daughters treat the good man in the worst way. The toxic men don't care about her. He walks away. But the good man keeps putting in efforts, hoping one day, her woman will be good to him too.
But many women goof it up, because many of them don't even know, what men want.
Can any woman answer what a man wants? Tell us if you know.
Men are expected to understand every nuance of female desire while women are allowed to dismiss male desire with one irritated sigh.
That imbalance is part of the problem.
But an able-bodied wife can seek maintenance.
Her idleness is not a concern for the judge.
Your honour,
why are you promoting idleness for able bodied wife?
You don't think women are capable of working and earning?
Isn't that anti-feminist?
Stop trying to change your life.
Change the next ten minutes.
Most people are defeated by the size of the goal.
Get fit.
Write a book.
Build a business.
Fix my life.
Your brain hears it as a mountain and quietly chooses comfort instead.
Shrink the mountain.
Don't exercise for an hour.
Walk for ten minutes.
Don't read a book.
Read one page.
Don't aim to become a different person.
Become 1% better than you were ten minutes ago.
Success is built through ordinary moments repeated so often that they become your identity.
The next ten minutes won't change your life.
But they will change the person who is living it.
And eventually, that changes everything.
#MindsetShift
Celina Jaitly is advising prenuptial agreements to women if they have assets. This would be taken sportingly because she's a woman & ofcourse women should have exclusive right over their assets
Advice the same to Men & suddenly it becomes Misogyny, generalizing women as gold diggers
Himanshu applied everywhere, got rejected by all, and openly shared his story of not knowing what to do next his family surviving on his salary now left devastated.
Meanwhile, Sejal Pawar has resumed college as usual after a committee that did nothing, enjoyed the Argentina vs Jordan game, landed Mamaearth deals, and received a Flipkart approach for an ad.
One struggles to keep going, the other continues her carefree, comfortable life. Yet society claims men have it easy.
I believe most women don't actually want feminism.
What they want is - traditional protections of patriarchy without the traditional obligations, and modern benefits of feminism without the modern burdens.
"Empowerment, freedom and equality without the burden of responsibility and accountability," is what most women crave for.
4.5 Lac cases registered of Crimes Against Women
Crimes against Men isn't even a category in NCRB
Men can't file FIR under any of these laws criminalizing sexual physical mental abuse even if they are victims
Almost half of rape cases are that of false promise of marriage which are consensual relationships reported as rape
Majority of dowry, DV cases are settled out of court with huge Alimony
Thousands of Molestation cases where neighbourhood fights have this section added by default
Feminists who cite this data just to excuse wrong doings by women even if murder, shut up men from speaking so that men's issues never get any attention, mock anyone standing up for men - ARE TOTALLY ANTI THE IDEA OF EQUALITY
If it’s valid to leave a man because he can’t afford the life you want, then it’s valid for a man to leave a woman once he’s successful because she’s no longer the woman he wants.
You can’t call one empowerment and the other betrayal. 🤷♀️
The biggest double standard between men and women?
A man can be loyal, responsible, and hardworking, but the moment he loses money or status, many women will leave him and call it “self care.”
A woman can be disloyal, disrespectful, entitled, and a financial burden, but as long as she’s beautiful or gives good sex, many men will still stay and call it “love.”
Society forgives women for almost everything except being broke or ugly.
Men are judged harshly for almost everything except being rich.
That’s the uncomfortable truth we don’t talk about enough.
What’s your honest take on this? 👇
Women rejecting broke men - standards.
Men rejecting single mothers - immature.
Women rejecting short men - preference.
Men rejecting fat women - body shaming.
Women set boundaries - knows her worth.
Men set boundaries - controlling.
See a pattern here?
Women say they want a strong man until his strength comes with standards, boundaries, emotional discipline, and the ability to say “no” to behavior that destroys peace.
What many people actually want is not leadership. They want authority without resistance.
That’s why modern relationships turn into power struggles instead of partnerships.
ATUL SUBHASH
He said his ashes must be put in the gutter if he isn't given Justice
1 Hour suicide video. 24 page suicide note. Letter to PM President HM all. Neatly kept in a google drive thinking he would get justice
His wife got out on bail in 20 days
His Mother-in-law - who laughed and said - oh you haven't killed yourself yet - also got bail within 20 days
His wife's uncle who demanded huge amounts to settle the case was never arrested
His son, who his wife had kept in boarding at such a young age became the reason for bail so soon, his parents haven't even seen a glimpse of him since then
Judge Rita Kaushik - first name in his suicide note never faced ANY ENQUIRY WHATSOEVER & later got promoted as well. Supreme Court never took cognizance even to investigate corruption despite a dying declaration
Nikita Singhania's right to livelihood was never taken away. Not for a day
First date given in trial of his case by the court was ONE YEAR AFTER THE FIRST HEARING
His wife has moved High Court to quash the case
I will not be surprised if it is even quashed because - There's no concept in India to criminalize mental cruelty by wife
Our system questions men who take their own life calling them weak, sensitive and overreacting
Compare it all to what we are seeing in media for last one week
I am sure Justice will be done to Twisha. I can not even hope if Justice would ever be done to Atul.
EQUALITY 🙏
As a woman, Never play games with a man who isn't afraid to be alone. He's survived nights without someone to hold him and learned to protect his PEACE. He won't settle for half hearted love or breadcrumbs. He loves by CHOICE, not out of need. If you're not adding to his life, he won't hesitate to SUBTRACT you. Walk away quietly gracefully because he's already WHOLE.🗣️✌🏼
I remember when women claimed divorce rates were high because women were no longer tolerating abuse and cheating.
Then Kentucky passed a 50/50 child custody law, and their divorce rates reportedly dropped by 25%.
The law didn’t prevent women from divorcing or take away access to their children…it simply established equal custody so children could have both parents actively involved in their lives. That’s it.
That’s when it dawned on me that women’s high divorces rates aren’t driven solely by abuse or infidelity, but also by the incentives that can come with divorce, such as primary custody, child support, and alimony. When they passed that law, it stopped about 90% of the incentives since child support is an 100% guarantee.
One of the harshest truths in men's lives that nobody talks about is that they're literally living in an "emotional desert."
A girl might get a hug, and a genuinely sweet word, and deep emotional support from her friends on a completely ordinary day.
But a guy might go a whole year without anyone touching him, even a simple touch, or asking him if he's okay or not, or saying a word of sincere appreciation to him.
We've built a society where a man doesn't feel that natural human warmth unless he's providing something for his life partner.
Otherwise, it's like he doesn't exist at all.