@LiBethOld1 @Naomi_Barrow@BlurtAlerts @JayneHardy_ And for that... coping strategies! ...I do have to reiterate I hugely agree this is something to remember! It’s easy to forget and jump back into the same patterns as before - which ends up in the same place, so learning and remembering who is in your ‘inner core’ ... vital! 💋
@LiBethOld1 @Naomi_Barrow@BlurtAlerts @JayneHardy_ Very true. Problem being when you’re ill, I ONLY see my husband. I go nowhere answer no phones and can’t even answer the door. At some point you want to learn to be ok to be out and about
I don’t think any woman ever complained that they didn’t show flaccid dicks in movies. It was a double standard most of us were ok living with. If I got to pick where to start the fight for equality, flaccid dicks on the screen would NOT have been it.
@Naomi_Barrow@BlurtAlerts @JayneHardy_ ... last one - ‘never wear uncomfortable clothes in an uncomfortable situation’ that ones a Ms Ruby original that one 🙃
@Naomi_Barrow@BlurtAlerts @JayneHardy_ Slowly slowly. 1 focus at a time. Be kind to yourself. Schedule yourself self care time! It’s SUPER important to schedule recentering time regularly, VERY regularly particularly at first ... oh! & start in a comfy place with comfy people ...