The kids who are raised with fear learn how to avoid punishment. Kids who are raised with respect learn self-discipline.
Some parents don't need to shout, threaten, or control every move because they are present, consistent, and set clear boundaries. Their children behave not because they are terrified, but because they understand accountability and mutual respect.
My intuition is SO crazy. I can literally have no evidence of what's going on but still know there's something going on behind my back & I'm always right๐ญ