3 things i donāt like when talking to me. Donāt talk to me like Iām your child . Donāt talk to me like Iām suppose to be scared of you. And never try to talk to me like Iām stupid. I get HOT quick
Never ignore me. You can tell me you don't want to talk. You can tell me you need space. Whatever the case may be. Radio silence is a hard limit for me. It touches a very vulnerable place in me.
I get so turned off when I peep I gotta hold a nigga hand & guide him step by step on how to be a real nigga, when that shit supposed to just come natural. Plus Iām a woman, so why the fuck I gotta show u how to be a real nigga & do simple, real nigga shit? Just ew.
if you werenāt born in ā97 - ā02, did you even really experience 2016?? š those were our prime teenage years ns ns š¤ the 2016 nostalgia isnāt for yall
end credits like these are so important because regardless of if you loved or hated whatever you saw before, youāre reminded of the beautiful roller coaster of a journey you go on while watching film & tv.
one of the best end credits in recent memory.
hey trust me ..you donāt need to comment on anyoneās acne scars, dark circles, frizzy hair, thin edges, height, weight gain or loss, or any part of their body the second you see them. they already know.. they live in that skin every single day.. they donāt need a reminder. grow
not to be super intense but life takes very active maintenance and disciple. it takes discipline, it takes waking up early, fitting your friends AND your work, it takes going on that walk instead of doom scrolling, it takes researching the best coffees and getting them, it takes so much work, otherwise before you know it youre older than you realized and havenāt done anything. arenāt where you wanted. havenāt done or seen or learned or felt or read all the things. all these things matter.
lately Iāve been turning off my feelings and doing it. apply to hackathon, scheduling international trips, organizing dinners, not feeding into my anxiety, waking up early, going to the gym, staying up late to finish work, sleeping in, writing, meeting people even if Iām nervous, just all the things. being really really brave and inserting myself in the places and things I want. I thought Iād be exhausted, and I am sometimes, but mostly i feel so empowered and in control.
I donāt want to be at the whim of my emotions. for so long I thought feelings for my strength and I could do anything with this burning desire, but now I realized itās more nuanced. I still believe they but now I know they sometimes I want to do nothing! and lay in bed for hours! <tw food> i want to skip meals and skip sleep and avoid people and hide from the world. and it means nothing! Thereās no sage wisdom there thereās nothing i am lacking (trust me i spent years ruminating on what im missing!) thereās nothing in means I just have to be strong. I have a cozy house, good food, great friends, amazing bf, a career and sooooo many ideas and industries I love, and I could go on but you get it. sometimes my feelings mean nothing besides I didnāt eat and I havenāt drank water and havenāt gotten sunlight.
do the hard things!! donāt give into the self sabotaging emotions!! be strong!! listen to your body but donāt let it dictate everything and love your life goddamn itttt