Good people have high levels of empathy, but once that empathy is exhausted, they switch to a state of objective observation. They see you for exactly who you are, without the filter of their love. This is why their anger feels so cold, it is the absence of the warmth you took for granted
You're doing yourself a disservice if you don't follow the nature loving, kind-hearted dommes like @MatriarchCxC and @submittoariella
They're wonderful Goddesses fighting the good fight 🙂
Idk if there's is anything that stunts growth or corrupts perception of value quite like having things handed to you.
I've learned the hard way in life that overextending my care had a detrimental effect on those I though I was looking out for.
Teach a man to fish, and all. Unless you wanna be the one doing all the fishing. ;) (I don't.)
I'm a big believer in proportional care and reciprocity.
My heart and care are all over my socials, fan sites, content and discord community you enjoy, so if you approach me asking for a freebie, or to chat without tribute, I know you don't value reciprocity in the same way.
And that's ok. It just means I'm not for you.
Women who value themselves need to see you step up to the plate, prepared and ready, before we throw you a ball.
Respecting and serving nature makes it much makes you much more competent in respecting and serving women.
compost, grow native plants, and learn about permaculture. it's the way to go.