bi + nb + self-shipper + very political
I'm big on a lot of fandoms top three are probably ikemen, bg3, and fire emblem 13/14/16/17
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Seriously why do theses even exist 😭😭😭😭
Just say you have autism and adhd like anybody else would
There's NO reason to be making them into gender microlabels
if you're bi, i don't give a FUCK if you're currently in a hetero-passing relationship you are VALID and you AND your partner BELONG at pride and FUCK anyone who says otherwise
@Moth_In_Stars@b0nes0fsal Literally this is directly connected to how people are turning serious disabilities into quirky personality traits. You can be comfortable in your labeled neurodivergence but acting like it's a cute little gender instead of a condition is insensitive.
@Riflejesus nobody with ADHD is calling themselves "ADHDgender" because they are too focused on the fact they have a 95% chance of not graduating college because of their DISABILITYYYY
I'm nb and I feel like a big part of that is personally because autism makes me feel like im not enough for society's gender views. I GET it. Dude it sucks but pushing "wow look at my queer label! It's a serious condition that disables me!" Is fucking insane.
And idc if you are actually diagnosed and think that your mental condition affects your gender. Ofc neurodivergence affects your gender, it affects you're whole life. Why would you, in a world that views being queer as a mental problem, put your mental problems with your gender?
@gh0stly_r0zes Like I don’t understand these people, if you don’t wanna be put in a label. Fine, but don’t use OTHER labels, and combine them to be something that literally contradicts each other, words have meanings and people seem to have forggoten that.
Queerness isnt an aesthetic, it's a facet of one's identity. This also applies to people who claim "but I love them in a queer way." Love is love. Trying to separate queer love vs cishet love is exactly how people other the queer community from things like equal rights.