my mom says “If a man wants the benefits of having a good woman without the responsibility of being a good man. That’s not a partner. That’s a parasite.”
I'm that gf that dates your family too. like you need to go take a shower? I'll sit & watch Netflix with ur little sister. need to do dishes? I'll sit & talk with your parents. wanna go visit ur grandma? let's go. relationships with my bf's fam will always be important to me too.
marry a man who's a provider. that doesn't necessarily mean that he has alot of money. It means he knows his responsibilities. he'll make mountains move just so your needs are met. a responsible man is better than a rich man who doesn't value you.
I just wish I knew
I just wish I knew what is happening inside of me.
I just wish I knew what is happening inside of him.
I just wish I knew what we have, is it same or just two people trying to know themselves and the time?
Life just feels so sorted and not so sorted at the same time. The lingering sadness behind all the happy sorts, the sadness of the potential vices, the sadness of what if(s). But I’m fine in this moment, I guess, never so complete.