Xhosa men boasting about going to the mountain, but it took the Zulus(which we look down on for not doing the mountain custom) to travel from fucking KZN to come and deal with the disrespect of the Nigerians in our own province.. Maybe afterall ubudoda aykokususa ijwabu...
Everybody loves the “fun rich auntie.”
Thoughtful gifts. Showing up for birthdays and holidays. Emotional support.
But reciprocity for her?
That part gets real quiet.
Good people, you only have one life.
Do not become a slave to what others think or say about you.
One day we will all leave this earth and none of it will matter except how we loved and how we lived.
May God’s grace bless you abundantly. ❤️
Go on solo dates. Go to church. Go partying. Go to the gym. Attend weddings and events. Frequent the mall. Frequent airport lounges. There’s no way you won’t meet a person in these places. If it still doesn’t go well, just DM me, I have an entire network of young professionals looking for mjolo. But leave work for work and you’ll thank yourself later.
I love how Tswana households raise their boys tbh. You'll never see them tweeting these things. Makes sense why their marriages last and their wives always look happy and young
I take things too personally. Talk to me in a certain tone, say the wrong thing, display body language I find rude, and that’s it. I mentally note it down and forever side eye ppl. I know not everything is about me and some ppl just have bad days but once I’m offended; good luck.