@Dreadful4Tymes It is, just some guys say it with other intentions and you can tell when they are saying it in a way as in they want you to use them on you.
Baby live your life, nobody should be able to shame you on your body and the decision you have made. Fuck a body count, what that brain like? what that hustle like? can you provide for yourself? Worry about more unimportant stuff.