“The main culprits are Nigerians, call a spade a spade—Nigerians are a problem in this country.”
Mzwakhe Mbuli says the R600 Million is a joke, an exaggeration that causes more harm than good...
Julius Malema speaking to Stephen Sackur from @BBCHARDtalk
I'm not wishing for the Grid to collapse I'm saying it's going to happen and people will rise, there will be anarching, there will be looting all over this country @Julius_S_Malema
Not to sound delusional, but please pray for grace. Life isn't really about hard work. It's more about meeting the right people, grace, mercy, and favour.
Cardi B said she doesn’t cook. She doesn’t clean but she’ll tell young black women how she got her ring.
Few years later. She doesn’t have any ring & is a baby mama of 4 kids. 2 different absent dads.
Megan Thee Stallion brags about how she puts men on rotation & how you don’t need a man in her songs but is crashing out after being cheated on.
These are the women young black girls look up to. 💔💔
this is arguably one of the most dangerous ways to live as a man even if it looks strong on the surface.
i started working in mining straight out of school, remote sites, long rotations and harsh conditions and out there, weakness gets exposed fast, you carry your own weight, you fix your own gear, you eat what you cook, no one babysits you underground... that environment trains you to rely on yourself or get crushed, literally.
after a few years, that mindset followed me home. i paid my bills early, handled repairs, made my own food, kept my emotions locked up tight and independence became identity. if something broke, i fixed it. if something hurt, i buried it. i didn’t need anyone and i wore that like armor.
but here’s the part nobody tells you: when you build a life where no one is needed, you also build one where no one fits. relationships started feeling inefficient, emotional conversations felt unnecessary, vulnerability felt like handing someone a pickaxe and hoping they wouldn’t swing.
self sufficiency and independence is powerful, yes it makes you competent, steady and hard to shake but if your not careful as a man, it turns into emotional isolation disguised as strength... and unlearning that, learning to let someone stand beside you instead of always proving you can stand alone is harder than any shift underground.