Nobody is above being cheated on, even if/when the sun is shining from your bumbum. You can be the most loving, beautiful, accomplished, self-aware person in the world and still be cheated on. Someone else’s decision to betray you is not a reflection of your worth. Just be very solid in yourself enough to leave when you need to because if you’re not careful, it may start to chip away at your self-esteem.
Chimamanda’s Dad was kidnapped. Yet she kept giving and giving to this Nation.
And then it took her child.
If she says she is done, then she is done. Take your faux patriotism out of my face.
“Believe all women” was born out of a society whose default setting is disbelief.
There’s very little room for nuance when half the population outright refuses to listen