to find the light one must first learn to notice its quiet hints and shimmering reflections dancing in the dark. the wise follow the glow where others see only shadow. welcome to the garden of subtle magic. https://t.co/ev808DMFdk
pushy LinkedIn guy scored a biz lunch to pitch me consulting for his project. Then lost it at the servers over the “burnt” food. I listened and ate, secretly tipped $100, and declined “with thanks”. I’ve come too far to work for anyone who can’t read the room… much less a menu.
Telling someone how much you care about them is one of the bravest things you can do. It’s easy to act detached. It’s harder to be sincere, to risk being seen, and to love without pretending you’re above it.
10/10 recommend learning how to shamelessly ask for all that you want bc you'll be surprised at how many people are willing to simply give it to you, and more
I was falling asleep last night thinking about how beautiful it is to love someone without needing anything from them. Making them food because you want them nourished. Holding them because you want them close. Doing small things that say, “Your comfort matters to me.” Maybe the deepest kind of love is the kind that isn’t keeping score.
I'm willing to die on this hill, y'all:
How we treat the barista, the restaurant server, the delivery driver, or the hotel housekeeper (aka, people who we may never see again) is the single most consistent test of whether our kindness is real or whether our kindness is a performance.
when a woman firm in her true power learns that a man who promised consistency is unreliable, she reclaims everything by expecting zero. it’s liberation from disappointment. the real test is how much he’ll do to prove he can be trusted again. action > words. always.