The feeling that your days are just going by, nothing's happening, you're just existing. As if waiting for something big to happen. But then you realise, the big moments are made of hours minutes seconds & if you're not living in those seconds you're not making those big moments!
@youphemise @serotoninfinds And one more thing- older people do have more experience with this world. They can easily understand another's intentions. But the world is changing, maybe that needs to be considered too.
@youphemise @serotoninfinds Well, apparently, all members of the family must have the same outlook to everything. I think that is the "Indian" way? Mostly, that will be the father's opinion. You can try to fight, but it will end up being personal in the end. There is a lack of space for individuality here.
@youphemise @serotoninfinds And that causes the issues you mention. Can someone tell boys that it is okay to disagree? You don't need to agree with every single thing anyone older than you says. Nor do you need to follow it, if you deem it wrong.