No one wants to hear this but sometimes it’s your fault. Your life isn’t good and it’s your fault. You made bad decisions/ choices and sadly, these are the consequences of your actions.
When God makes your blessings easier and quicker for you, there’s the temptation to think that others who are struggling aren’t doing enough, or you’re just better. Resist the temptation
There are some decisions that will break your heart but give you peace. Like letting that toxic woman you love go, like saying NO to one sided relationship even though you find her attractive. You just have to break your heart to gain your peace back.
Prioritize your peace!
Man or woman, it is a crime to be bored. Especially as an adult.
You cannot afford to be sitting idle when there is so much to learn and money to be made.
Take for instance, if you are:
Good with logic? Software engineering. $133,080 a year.
Curious how things break? Cybersecurity. $124,910.
Good eye for how things should feel? UI/UX design. $98,090.
Good with words? Technical writing. $91,670.
Patient with problems? IT support and networking. $73,340.
Good with rhythm and story? Video editing. $70,980.
You don’t even need a degree to start. A laptop, a portfolio, and one year of showing up is good enough.
As a man, why are you bored?
There’s a lot of dreams to chase, a lot of things to achieve, a lot of purpose to fulfill, a lot of work to do.
Get busy and start taking your life seriously.
never compromise on it, i think we should be more intentional and vain when it comes to things like this.
we like to pretend like physical attraction isn’t important (lmao) please don’t go for people that aren’t your type, you’ll js be unhappy.
loving their brain is great but it’s not enough, you NEED to love their body too.
This is a trauma response and I know it is because I suffer from the same fear. Nothing scares me more than being broke again.
Sometimes it makes you penny wise and pound foolish. Most times, it makes you choose a less enjoyable life than you have earned.