In order to bring back love letters, we must first bring back the real lovers, and in order to bring back the real lovers, we must bring back emotional intelligence, kindness, empathy, and consideration.
Amar también significa cuidar lo que hacemos con el corazón del otro y reconocer que nuestras acciones pueden herir. Es aprender a poner límites a nuestros impulsos, sanar lo que nos corresponde y no convertir nuestras heridas en armas contra quién queremos.
nunca desejei tanto paz como agora. Não quero acordar com raiva, amargurada ou magoada, sem energia e com pensamentos negativos, só quero estar em paz e ser feliz
There’s a difference between being patient and repeatedly accepting what you’ve already said you won’t tolerate. Being patient means giving someone the space to learn, grow and make things right. But when you’ve communicated your boundary clearly and the same behaviour keeps happening, it’s no longer about patience. It’s about whether you’re willing to keep betraying yourself just to keep someone else comfortable. You can understand someone’s mistakes without making excuses for a pattern. You can love someone and still decide that certain behaviour is no longer acceptable in your life. A boundary you keep explaining without enforcing eventually becomes permission. Know when patience has turned into self-abandonment.