@DrJoeAbah These thread is just wat I need at dis time.
Point that capture my interest:
1. Look at your overall boss and ask urself: is this person living my dream life? *Is this all i want in life?*
2. Loyalty is mainly to urself & the needs of those dat depends on u
Tanks 4 sharing sir.
This coach is not just coaching those kids... He's coaching us all.
What a man!!!
Don't look at other's pace and position focus on your own grind.
There's no first to reach in life. The goal is to be present in the circle of influence
May the universe make it easy for us 🙏
1. Be vigilant in keeping your conversations, inboxes, direct messages, emails, & texts PURE.
2. Beware of those who use phrases like "this is between us," "you can trust me," or "I won't tell anyone" to get you to lower your guards or remove your boundaries.
3. Anything sown in secret is subject to a public harvest.
4. So be loving; but not lenient. Be friendly but firm. Be compassionate but clear.
5. Don't tolerate inbox chatter that would compromise your character or taint your testimony.
6. Let the last time you did it be the last time you will ever do it.
I hope this is clear?
As a man,
If you're married to a first daughter child from a struggling family, & you're also from a shrugging family.
Please take care of your immediate family first.
But when you want to extend kindness to your extended family, please do it to your own siblings first.
Your wife's family will be highly dependent on your income, and your own family will be looking to you for help too.
Please uplift your own family out of poverty first, before thinking of your wife's.
Otherwise, your wife will use your money to upgrade her family and later shame your own family for being poor & even try to block you from helping them.
Forget that she's your wife and mother of your children.
She also has brothers, and her brothers will do the same if they were in your shoes.
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Full list of Malami properties listed by EFCC’s interim forfeiture order marked FHCIABJ/CS/20/2026:
1. Luxury duplex at Amazon Street, Plot No. 3011, Cadastral Zone A06, Maitama, Abuja (purchased in December 2022 for N500 million; enhanced value: N5.95 billion).
2. Two-winged storey building at No. 3, Onitsha Crescent, Area 11, Garki, Abuja (formerly Harmonia Hotels Limited), purchased in December 2018 for N7 billion.
3. Plot 683, Jabi District, Cadastral Zone B04, Abuja, comprising a five-storey building now operating as Meethaq Hotels Ltd with 53 rooms and suites (purchased in September 2020 at carcass level for N850 million, with an additional N300 million paid to take possession; current value: N8.4 billion).
4. Property No. 3130, Cadastral Zone A04, Asokoro District, Abuja, comprising terraces, purchased in January 2021 for N360 million.
5. Meethaq Hotels Limited, No. 3 Rhine Street, Maitama, Abuja, with 15 rooms (purchased in February 2018 for N430 million; current value after rehabilitation: N12.95 billion).
6. Plot No. 1241B, Asokoro District (No. 11A Yakubu Gowon Crescent), Abuja, purchased in July 2021 for N325 million.
7. Shop No. C82, Citiscape-Shariff Plaza, Plot 739, Aminu Kano Crescent, Wuse II, Abuja, purchased in March 2024 for N120 million.
8. No. 4 Ahmadu Bello Way, Nasarawa GRA, Kano, purchased in December 2022 for N300 million.
9. Plot 157, Lamido Crescent, Nasarawa GRA, Kano, purchased in July 2019.
10. Plaza, commercial toilets, laundry, warehouses and tanks adjacent to Birnin Kebbi Market, valued at N100 million.
11. One hundred hectares of land along Birnin Kebbi-Jega Road, purchased in 2020 for N100 million.
12. Four-bedroom bungalow at Gesse Phase, Birnin Kebbi, purchased in 2023 for N101 million.
13. Shops A36 and B3, Vegas Mall, Wuse II, Abuja, purchased in July 2023 for N158 million.
14. No. 26, Babbi Drive, BUA Estate, Abuja, purchased in 2022 for N136 million.
15. No. 27, Efab Estate Avenue, 5th Avenue, 59th Crescent, Gwarinpa, Abuja, purchased in January 2016 for N120 million.
16. Four-bedroom bungalow with two-room boys’ quarters at No. 10B, Doka Crescent, Abakpa GRA, Kaduna, purchased in January 2018 for N40 million.
17. Plot No. 13, Ipent 7 Estate, Karsana District, Abuja, purchased in June 2018 for N85 million.
18. Duplex with boys’ quarters at No. 12 Yalinga Street, off Adetokunbo Ademola Crescent, Wuse II, Abuja, purchased in October 2018 for N150 million.
19. Warehouse shops B40 and B46, Wuse Market, Abuja, purchased in July 2020 for N50 million.
20. Twin houses at Zone E, Apo Legislative Quarters, Plot 14014, Gudu District, Abuja, purchased between February and May 2017 for N250 million.
Properties acquired by Khadimiyya for Justice & Development Initiative, Academic Garden City, Birnin Kebbi
21. Nine units of three-bedroom bungalows.
22. Three units of two-bedroom bungalows.
23. 5.4 hectares of land (acquired between February and September 2023 for N187 million).
Rayhaan University, Kebbi State
24. Permanent site – N56 billion.
25. Temporary site – N37.8 billion.
26. Third site – N2.45 billion.
27. Vice-Chancellor’s residence – N490 million.
Rayhaan Agro Allied Factory, Kebbi State
28. Factory buildings – N4.2 billion.
29. Factory machines and plant – N10.5 billion.
30. Factory mosque – N2.45 billion.
31. Staff quarters – N1.4875 billion.
32. Bustan building – N3.15 billion.
Azbir Arena, Kebbi State
33. Azbir Hotel – N10.325 billion.
34. Printing press – N1.05 billion.
35. Gallery – N581 million.
36. Gardens – N392 million.
37. Mosque – N252 million.
38. Azbir Clothing – N350 million.
39. Azbir Pharmacy and Supermarket – N175 million.
Other properties in Kebbi State
40. Al-Afiya Energy tanker garage opposite Rayhaan University Health Centre, Birnin Kebbi – N2.45 billion.
41. Rayhaan Model Academy – N11.2 billion.
42. Rayhaan Primary and Secondary School – N8.75 billion.
43. Rayhaan Security House, Birnin Kebbi – N245.7 million.
44. Rayhaan Radio, Birnin Kebbi – N78.75 million.
45. Uncompleted two-storey plaza opposite Central Motor Park (Eastern Park), Birnin Kebbi – N665 million.
46. Amasdul Oil and Gas Ltd filling station structure along Sani Abacha Bypass, Birnin Kebbi – N1.05 billion.
47. Malami Support Organisation building – N210 million.
48. ADC Kadi Malami Foundation building – N56 million.
49. Abubakar Malami (SAN)’s house, GRA, Birnin Kebbi – N350 million.
50. Abubakar Malami (SAN)’s house behind Mobil, Birnin Kebbi – N490 million.
51. Abdulaziz Malami’s house at Gesse Phase II, Birnin Kebbi – N1.659 billion.
52. Abiru-Rahman Abubakar Malami’s house at Gesse Phase II, Birnin Kebbi – N2.989 billion.
Properties in Kano State
53. Zeennoor Hotel, Kabuga Satellite Town, Kano, with 131 rooms – N11.2 billion.
54. Zeennoor Mosque, Kabuga Satellite Town, Kano – N84 million.
55. Zeennoor Old Hotel Building – N280 million.
56. Rayhaan Hotel, opposite Aminu Kano Teaching Hospital, Kano, comprising more than 50 rooms – N2.24 billion.
57. Rayhaan Gym, opposite Rayhaan Hotel, Kano – N1.225 billion
I decided a long time ago that I wouldn't talk about some sensitive things regarding marriage as long as it seems those things are done more often by one gender than the other.
I am a minister of the gospel, and I had no intention of being labelled the hater of a particular gender.
My desire is that we all do well and that those of us who choose the marriage path in life will thrive in it, while those who find marriage to be too tough to handle and are willing to leave the union will do so with dignity and mutual respect.
As we approach the third term holidays, a lot of men are in my DM talking about how their ex-wives are beginning to throw tantrums over the release of the children to spend time with their fathers.
Most mothers assume that they know what is best for their children, but they base this assumption on their selfish feelings and not on the welfare and emotional health of the children.
If your children don't spend quality time with their fathers, it will affect them in the future.
Your daughters will jump from bed to bed seeking male validation because they didn't get it from their daddy.
Your sons will find it difficult to bond with other people and their own children, and would most likely be an absentee father or a serial monogamist if you don't let their father share with them the true perspective of how to be a man, either from the point of view of the mistakes he made with you.
If he had remarried and is getting it right in this second marriage, you must allow your son to study him and his working marriage as a template of how to have a healthy marriage in future.
This in no way is an indictment on you as a mother to prove that you are a bad wife or that you were the problem
Please release your children to spend time with their fathers, especially when such a father is responsible and truly loves his children
One of the greatest miracles as this crippled Muslim guy stood up and walked after receiving his miracle 🙏🏾
Jesus Christ is THE same yesterday today and forever 🙏🏾✝️
Leandro Trossard’s farewell message to Arsenal fans. ❤️
🗣️ “Walking onto that pitch, hearing ‘North London Forever’, it still gives me goosebumps. My chapter here has come to an end. Once a Gunner, always a Gunner. Your guy, Mr. Clutch.” 🥹🇧🇪
Dear young men,
Especially those of you between the ages of 27-33 and are still single.
This is how you know that you may have found your wife:
1. She's highly interested in what you do legitimately for a living, actively trying to encourage you to build your career or business, and always looking out for other opportunities for you.
2. If you live alone, she takes initiatives without being told by observing your home and trying to buy things she knows you need to live a better life in preparation for marriage.
3. She will hardly ask you for money, not because she doesn't need it, but because it's easy for her to get money from other men. And she knows that taking money from other men is an "invitation to treat", and can destroy her relationship with you. And she wouldn't want to make you feel that she's with you for your money, too.
4. When you give her money to do certain things, either for you or for her, she'll try to give you an account of how she spent the money.
5. She keeps boundaries with your friends and doesn't try to compare you with them. Rather, she would look out for that friend whom she observes has your best interests at heart, and encourage you to stay close to him.
6. She will not use sex as a weapon in the relationship, neither would she use it as a bargaining chip.
7. She actively gives you updates on how her day went, and she doesn't come to your house with her phone on silent mode or airplane mode.
8. She will try to abide by how you like her to dress, and she'll listen to you when you caution her about certain behavior that you do not like.
9. She'll actively want you to know her siblings and show interest in and respect for your siblings as well.
10. She'll not hold back if you ask her to lend you money, if she has it. But you, the man, must keep to your words when paying her back.
11. She'll bend many rules for you, but you should not take undue advantage of it.
12. She'll stress you sometimes, and test you in as many ways as possible. She's doing all that to see how well you can lead her, and how well you can control your emotions or anger.
13. She'll make mistakes. But you should use it as a teaching moment for her. If you don't judge her too harshly, she'll start to listen to you more. When you make a woman trust you with her vulnerability, she'll overlook some of your excesses.
14. She'll actively seek your validation and yours alone; whatever you say is good for her, she will accept it. And she won't care what the world says or feels about her.
15. She will not force you to be religious, but she will actively observe whether you respect God, because a man without God may not be a good leader.
If you have a lady that can do at least 10 out of the 15, you may have found your wife.
And remember, when you choose your wife, you have chosen your destiny.
End.
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My friend’s wife left him after fifteen years of marriage without children.
My friend loves this woman, she has nothing wrong with her medically but children didn’t come despite all her prayers and fasting
My friend also has nothing wrong with him, children just refused to come for the two of them.
After the wife left, my friend pleaded and begged for two years, he went to his wife’s parent’s house in Kaduna to beg them to plead on his behalf
He was well received but his father in law told him to move on
So he did!
He met another woman and impregnated her within three months.
Now this my friend is a pastor and he shouldn’t have slept with this other woman without getting divorced properly and getting married to her
His wife went to the church’s headquarters to talk to the General Overseer about his audacity to impregnate another woman
My friend has been summoned to Kaduna to explain himself
He called me to ask me what he should do
I said “Brother, when you get there, don’t talk, just sing “it is well, it is well, with my soul, with my soul, it is well, it is well, with my soul”
I meant it as a joke
He took it as a real advise and did it right in the presence of Reverend Joel, the General Overseer and his wife’s father.
He was suspended for a year
When the pregnant lady delivered a baby boy the church conducted a DNA test
The boy was my friend’s son
The church has sacked him for improper conduct and disrobed him as a pastor.
My friend called me to ask what he should do.
I sang the same song to him.
It is well with your soul dear brother!