Poor man?
Lmao.
This is me watching same Grandprix in Abu Dhabi, 2024
Only black man in the setting.
View cost $45,900
So , relax. Not everyone is on your level.
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(1) One of the demerits of having public debates like this is that, within a short time, context is lost, nuances change, misinterpretations ( both via intentional agenda or honest misrepresentations), is carefully but steadily inserted and emotions run rife without critical thinking, deep reflection and a holistic consideration of all arguments.
(2) No one said men should move into their women's house instead of the other way round as part of modern day ideologies.
(3) CONTEXT was a man's 1 room house Vs a woman's much larger house.
(4) Timeline for staying in the supposed wife's house was temporal. It wasn't a "get married-move to your wife's house and remain there" scenario. It was supposed to help a struggling man find his footing, fix his finances, afford his own place and move out.
(5) Many have argued that moving into a woman's house will bring disrespect and embarrassment. Whilst this is true, how does this not imply (by your own submissions), that women are not good people ? That they are selfish and non-dependable.
(6) Should a woman's love and respect for a man be circumstantial, built solely on the things he can provide such that whereas he momentarily or even permanently can't, he should get no love and respect from his wife?
(7) How do you people not see that these ideologies are the same dark ideas that are largely responsible for lots of young men getting to 40 without considering getting married?
How does this not make for the case that struggling or poor men deserve no love and men should not find love until they are stable. How many people find full stability before 30 and 40? How do you not see that these strict ideologies are responsible for men having a higher suicide rate and at an alarming rate!
(8) Would your love for your wife diminish simply because she lives in your house? Is it then justified that your wife's love should diminish because you live under her roof? If such were to happen, does it not prove that the woman is a terrible person whose affection is opportunistic and conditional?
(9) If we say a man should only be regarded as the head of the home when he can provide a house, how about when disaster strikes and a man becomes incapacitated or he losses his job for different reasons or his business winds down? What happens?
(10) Finally, this is a value system debate. It exposes the fact that our women are intrinsically opportunistic lovers — considering that women in many other countries don't have same ideologies. It means they are selfish leeches and conditional, fair-weather lovers. It also means people should stop saying they married their "best friends" because it is evidently not true!
If someone would disrespect you if you lived under their roof, would you include them in a list of people you have and can call on?
You should provide for the woman who can happily provide for you. You have no business providing for someone who would disagrace and disrespect you if she had to provide for you.
Respect should not be a function of provision because provision has no permanent insurance. It is bound by the whimps and caprices of time and chance. If we can agree on all the aforesaid, perhaps we can also agree on one final thing — that our value system is 💔. Broken and shattered. Irreparably shattered.
This is such a stupid way to think and view life
That’s the reason I hate that word ‘enabling’.. Because it leaves room for excuses.. It leaves everyone pointing fingers and not owning up.. Nobody would be accountable
- We also have Men that have met a Lady, took her home and slept with her same night + she woke up next morning to sweet the house and clean before leaving
- We have Men that have cat-called a babe, she got into the car, gave him head and followed him home.
So should that also be the standard ?
Should we blame those women for setting the ‘loose’ standard ?
Does that justifies Men cat-calling Women on the road when they’re walking by ?
Does that make it cool to meet a girl and ask her to follow you home that same night just coz some dude somewhere had gotten away with it in the past ?
You Ladies just don’t reason.. “My friend has met Men that spent on them during talking stage, so.. other Men should meet up to that standard”
My own friend too has met a Lady that slept with him that same night and also called her friend to come fuck his friends
Oya all of you should maintain that standard too.
Brainless clowns!
I understand that “Your 20s are for grinding.”
And you're right to build, hustle, learn, stay disciplined.
But here’s the part that is important:
You will never get your 20s again.
Personally, I didn't know what fun is lol based on my upbringing.
I was always at home, always working, cutting out everything that didn’t look like progress.
But I learned that enjoying life doesn’t slow you down, it fuels you.
Just build a great schedule, that's what I did late this year;
And I noticed it really helped me and kept me focused.
It will add life to your life.
As a man, please and please do things that boost your adrenaline.
- Ride a Horse.
- Go Swimming
- Drive dirt biking and go hiking.
- Visit different places.
- Most especially, Eat different foods!.
Try experiences that make your heart race and your soul smile 😂
The plans I personally have for myself next year ehhn 🤣
The thing is, those moments reset your mind and it will boost your creativity more and remind you why you're hustling to begin with.
I agree, build in your 20s, but don’t forget to live in your 20s.
This nomination came with applause but also with serious questions. I took time to think beyond the noise, beyond the excitement, and beyond public pressure. In this video, I share my full reasoning and my final decision. As always, a truth at a time.
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Feel every emotion, don't run from it or try to escape it, let it sink and simmer. Enjoy every laughter like it's your last, cry your eyes out when you feel sad, accept your fear but don't let them stop you. Emotions don't not define you, how you respond do
Y'all in the comment section need to be locked the fuck up, because I know some people actually mean that shit. Like that's a rabbit, it can't be that had😂