I understand that most who read this won't care but as I live with passive suicidal thoughts on a daily basis, Findom will never be a huge part of my life. I enjoy some of the interactions but don't expect to find a reason to want to live on here. So don't expect huge drainings
But that doesn't explain why some chuck the hashtag onto every post they make making it difficult to find true spoons Goddesses. Or why some declare anyone who uses the hashtag as scum of the earth
So per some, spoonspig has changed to mean anyone who wants to send food or drink to goddesses, not just those in that chain. Maybe this is why do many Americans think it's OK to use it or those goddesses who consider themselves too posh to set foot inside a spoons.