Lemme tell you what Real Manhood is. It's being Blessed & Happy , having a wonderful Wife, prosperous and functioning Children and wonderful Grandchildren. Being able to be there for them all. That's peace and you don't get it unless you put God first.
I was never a fan of Fathers grilling on Father's Day after he dropped the bank a month prior on Mother's Day for his wife and Mother. I remember when this nonsense started in the 90's. I'd rather lay in bed all day preparing for Monday then stand over a grill on MY Day.