Men will go to the gym, build businesses, work 60 hours a week, pay every bill in the house, fix every crisis, protect every child, and still be told theyโre unreasonable for wanting desire from their wife.
you stress me, I disappear. you bring unnecessary drama, Iโm gone. you show fake support, i distance myself. you disrupt my peace, I block your access. you underestimate my growth, i move in silence. you cross boundaries, i cut ties.
The dating game is so broken that replying to a text in 30 seconds is seen as desperation, while leaving someone on read for 8 hours is called having standards.
As a man, You have to get to a place in your life where vagina has no power over you. Lust canโt lead you, beauty canโt blind you, and access canโt control you. A man who canโt control his appetite will always be easy to manipulate.
HAVE SELF CONTROL. ๐ค๐ผ๐ฃ๏ธโ๐ฝ๏ธ
If you keep saving people from the results of their own choices, do not be surprised when they stop seeing you as generous and start seeing you as the fool who absorbs the cost of their recklessness. A favor given too often becomes a service they feel entitled to receive.
A moment of real silence where youโre alone with your thoughts and not distracted by anything.
No phone, no noise, no pressure just you.Most people run from that their whole life, but it teaches you more than a lot of experiences combined.
Thatโs true, but it also goes both ways.Respect and consideration shouldnโt turn into walking on eggshells or self-censorship. A healthy relationship isnโt just โwould I be okay if my partner did this?โitโs also โcan I still be myself and communicate openly about it?โ
A serious relationship changes how you move. Not because youโre controlled, but because youโre considerate. Being grown enough to do whatever you want is easy. Being mature enough to ask, โWould I be okay if my partner did this?โ is respect. Thatโs how trust stays intact.
Had a great time at Intellectus Campus engaging students on entrepreneurship highlighting the power of networking, value creation, and strategic marketing. Also had the privilege of interacting with Deputy Mayor of Ongwediva, Mr Jeremiah Amutenya. Grateful for impactful convo!
True ! If you want to show that you know and understand what you are talking about ,present it without not reading from any notes taken from CHATGPT ,it always looks weird and unprofessional
I always tell people to never memorize their speeches nor read a written speech at an occasion. Reading a speech demonstrates how unprepared you are, and shows how you donโt even know what youโre saying. Letโs educate ourselves on public speaking.
If you want training, reach out to me.
Never stop re-inventing yourself, trying new things until you get it right. Try the job market, try the entrepreneurship market, try everything, until you find success.
The hardest part about breaking generational cycles is that your family or community sees your growth as betrayal. You're not getting drunk/high like they do. You're not lazing around like they do etc. Not repeating patterns like they do. And instead of being inspired, they're offended. Your growth simply exposed their laziness and stupidity.