@CausticBlunt I had a penpal last year and we agreed to communicate via letters bc we found it fun lol and yes sending emails would have been faster but we got a different albeit good experience with sending letters through the mail for each other. So yes, postal services are a thing
having your “firsts” in your 20s is nothing to be ashamed of. first kiss, first date, first partner, first time having sex, etc. it’s actually very normal to experience those things for the first time in your 20s. there’s nothing to be ashamed of!! it’s more common than you think