𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗿𝗿𝘆

ᴀʀᴛɪsᴛᴇ|ᴇɴᴛʀᴇᴘʀᴇɴᴇᴜʀ ●I Love People. ●Economic Activist.
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Starry - EP OUT EVERYWHERE!!!

[𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗿𝗿𝘆 @Starrysofficial]

Tony Elumelu's Wife was Wealthier than him?

And the Wife's Father was CEO of UBA before Tony Elumelu took over?

🙊

[The hair plug @Msmenalicious]

These 4 hair creams are the OGs of hair growth!!

I saw black American babes on IG mixing all 4 to form one hair growth cream 😭😭😭

[Kreative Doctor ⚕️ @the_grafixmedic]

To get any book you want on the internet, type the name of the book followed by doctype:pdf

E.g The Alchemist doctype:pdf

[𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗿𝗿𝘆 @Starrysofficial]

This goes for most things you notice about yourself as well.

[Tori_ @Toribabieegirl]

Pro tip: If you can smell yourself a little bit other people can smell you alot

[Joe Hart @JHartFlips]

Fertility doctor that figured out why my wife was having miscarriages

We now have 3 kids

[𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗿𝗿𝘆 @Starrysofficial]

I've always felt this way.
Even when someone"wrongs you",

your reactions and behavior as a result of that wrong / offence you have taken, is not always valid if you cross certain thresholds. Some reactions can be overboard!

[𝕮𝖍𝖆𝖗𝖑𝖞❤️‍🔥 @Charlygotyou]

I heard a therapist say, “Your feelings are always valid, your behavior is not.” She explained by saying feel what you feel BUT you need to be accountable for what you do as a result of those feelings.

[𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗿𝗿𝘆 @Starrysofficial]

@Charlygotyou @iamAbiodunAA So what about those people who say, you are angry at my reaction.

[Lisa @lisathebeauty1]

Maturing is realizing that the best reassurance you can give your person in a relationship comes through conversation. When you're going through tough times, shutting down or going quiet only makes them feel unsure. But when you choose to talk things through and work it out together, it helps them feel safe, seen, and wanted.

[Mami Amah 🎀 @ItsAmahAdoma]

I wonder how many times they had to forgive each other to make it this far. 🥺🥺😭

[𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗿𝗿𝘆 @Starrysofficial]

Finally,

Do everything from a place of Love. 🤍

Till e reach your boundary.

Then you (withdraw) leave immediately, or communicate "if they are worth it," and also if they even have the capacity to understand, but don't hold back!!!

Don't!

Else, you risk betraying yourself!

[𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗿𝗿𝘆 @Starrysofficial]

We as a Collective have agreed that some things are " Evil / Bad " in quote;
that is the shadow (the boundary)

Because we ourselves when it is done to us,we would prefer not to experience it!

Remember the "Golden Rule"? Mathew 7 v 12
It's already in our hearts, your conscience

[𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗿𝗿𝘆 @Starrysofficial]

So now, how can you tell that your love cannot
cover or reach this one?

It is when the feeling in your heart becomes a
feeling of fear, unhappiness, anger, sadness, that's
when you know your "boundary" has been crossed
or reached!!!

Fear is the opposite of Love.

[𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗿𝗿𝘆 @Starrysofficial]

I'd type it as I have come to understand,

Your Boundary is that area where your love cannot reach or cover.

( Refer to - Light & Shadow reference. )

[𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗿𝗿𝘆 @Starrysofficial]

First, you have to decenter "Good and Evil.

There's only Light and Shadow. (boundary)

Nothing is inherently Good, nor Bad but only by the definitions you give it.
Gen 2 v 19.

However, you choose what you prefer to experience and what you do not, that's the boundary.

Selah🤍

[𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗿𝗿𝘆 @Starrysofficial]

A shadow is the boundary of light because it defines the precise area where light rays are obstructed by an object, marking the transition from illumination to darkness.

[𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗿𝗿𝘆 @Starrysofficial]

First, you have to decenter "Good and Evil.

There's only Light and Shadow. (boundary)

Nothing is inherently Good, nor Bad but only the definitions you give it.
Gen 2 v 19.

However, you choose what you prefer to experience and what you do not, that's the boundary.
🤍🤍🤍

[𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗿𝗿𝘆 @Starrysofficial]

Man or Woman.

Don't tolerate no one.

[SwiftieLee 🖤 @SwiftieLee1]

Tolerating a man always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern, or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. And eventually, the bill comes due

[𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗿𝗿𝘆 @Starrysofficial]

Ever been in a situation where you were mistreated and offended and angry but didn't truly understand what magnitude of unjustment was done to you but the more you sat with the situation and thought about it, the angrier you got?

Especially when you ruminate as a third party🤔