People don’t talk enough about how nice it is to feel sure in love. Not anxious. Not half-loved. Not almost chosen. Being assured they want you. No begging. No shrinking. No proving your worth. That kind of love is everything.
Overextending yourself for people and making their emergencies your own emergency doesn't get you more loved, it's gets you more used. Trust me they'd be fine without you. being kind is powerful. Being kind without boundaries is exhausting.