The ouroboros of society in which women, tied to the very systems that compel their self-preservation, sometimes enable male promiscuity. That reinforces the same norms that created the conditions for it causing the system to consume and recreate itself endlessly.
#Thepolygamist
@currentiyke Yes we eat them but must we punish them before eating. Let's appreciate the life we take to sustain ours, it doesn't take anything from us.
Don't ignore me. You can tell me you don't wanna talk. You can tell me you need space. Whatever the case.
Radio silence is a hard limit for me. It touches a very vulnerable place in me.
Around 4 months ago when I went to visit my parents at their home
I stopped by a restaurant near to get pepper soup takeout.
I saw my secondary school classmate there
Clearing the tables and taking my order
At first I didn’t think much of it especially when I noticed the owner was her mum
It’s okay to help your parents businesses right ?
Until this woman started interviewing me 😂
And I meant her mum
She saw how we greeted each other and laughed like we were catching up.
Her mum first asked me why I’m buying much take out
I said I was visiting my parents and I wanted to bring something they liked.
She shockingly asked (with eyes wide open)
“You don’t live with them” ?
I said No, why would I still live with my parents at this age,
my life will clearly be unproductive cause of 0 challenges.
That how this woman started talking with pride on how none of her children will ever leave her house else they are married
They have a shop to run bla bla bla
She went on to say, her children won’t be there and she will be paying extra workers.
I looked at my classmate, she was soo embarrassed and at the verge of crying
At that moment, all I could see was a girl in her twenties chained and living in extreme bondage.
And unfortunately, I can’t do anything for her.
Worst is, I don’t even think she has ever worked other than at her mum’s shop.
No experience or skill whatsoever.
It’s crazy ngl.
If your parents are wealthy there is nothing wrong staying home at least you have inheritance waiting for you
But if not
Staying home will kill your dreams
You need to go out there and hustle!