You don't need a perfect partner. You need someone who can regulate their emotions, admit when they fuck up, & actually sit with uncomfortable conversations without shutting down, flipping it on you, or throwing low blows every time sht gets real.
A cheating man is bad enough. But you know what's even worse? A man who pretends to be good, but in reality is a pathological liar, a lustful manipulator, and an expert at playing the victim...
Unfortunately my last relationship completely changed me. So yes, I DO care about the people in your phone. Yes, I DO care about what you're doing when Iโm not around. Yes, I DO care when you seem even slightly off. Yes, I DO care about things I wished I didnโt. And itโs not because Iโm insecure, controlling, or trying to make your life difficult. Itโs because I learned the hard way what it feels like to trust someone fullyโฆ and then be broken by them.
It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out, feed you, do nice things for you, and compliment you.
You should never have to teach someone to do that.