The British Stepmum

Daily rants about the pleasures & struggles of integrated family life as a mummy & stepmum. Includes humorous/sarcastic interaction with BM! #twitterstepmoms

[The British Stepmum @StepmumUKrants]

Anyone else in the situation as a step-parent where you feel constantly judged by BM and equally unsupported by your partner? Spend my life giving and never get anything back. I’m the best teammate but where is mine? 💔

[The British Stepmum @StepmumUKrants]

BM told CM that SD(14) no longer stays 53-104nts because sometimes when at ours her friends invite her to sleepovers and we let her go. All because she wants more money rather than get a job. #lazyBM #getajob

[The British Stepmum @StepmumUKrants]

BM been on hol with SKids paid for by her parents, 1wk later another 10day hol. Meanwhile moaning to us she needs more money for school buses/uniforms etc #lazybm #getajob

[The British Stepmum @StepmumUKrants]

Please can I ask any of you that follow me to sign this petition. Petition: Luke’s Law: Ban 'free bets' and emails that entice gamblers to place 'free bets' https://t.co/2MfbRfB9Sh

[The British Stepmum @StepmumUKrants]

@StepMomProb Horrendous isn’t it. The constant conditioning of a child to think and act in a specific way. Abuse.

[The British Stepmum @StepmumUKrants]

The Weds night saga continues. BM has stopped us seeing them yet expects H to do sports drop offs/pickups that night so she doesn’t have to take the other kids with her. Not good enough to have them stay with us but good enough to do all the running around. #ParentalAlienation

[The British Stepmum @StepmumUKrants]

I concur. #parentalalienation #stopthemanipulation

[The British Stepmum @StepmumUKrants]

#ParentalAlienation #toxic #shelovesthepower

[The British Stepmum @StepmumUKrants]

SS15 has mock exams in 2wks & has done no revision. H sent BM an example revision timetable to enforce at both homes and the response was ‘if you think I’m getting him to do that you’re having a laugh’ also she said it’s just as important to go out & see his friends #wtf #nohope

[The British Stepmum @StepmumUKrants]

@misskk84 Exactly! You’d think they’d grow tired of causing so much unnecessary drama! 🙄 #nosuchluck #dramaqueens

[The British Stepmum @StepmumUKrants]

VERY annoyed by BM’s drama this wk.Declared she’s stopping our weekly overnight access due to H getting new job & her not being able to control situation or the slightly different timings of his hours.The slander has already started on social media #pathetic #lazybm #alienation

[The British Stepmum @StepmumUKrants]

@EvaUnbeatable I cannot begin to imagine what you are going through. I’m so sorry. Sending love and prayers for you all at this truly heartbreaking time 💔 xx

[The British Stepmum @StepmumUKrants]

Been told due to pandemic I may lose my job. Called CM to see if there was anything they could do as my OH can’t pay mortgage/bills solo due to his CM payment. The answer was no they can’t do anything. I asked what if we lose our house? Response: that would be unfortunate #ffs

[The British Stepmum @StepmumUKrants]

SD11 says she’s asking for much from BM this year for xmas just Vivienne Westwood earrings, a new iPhone and some new trainers... that’ll be around £900 in total... #supposedlyskint #moremoneythansense #wepayforthatanyway

[The British Stepmum @StepmumUKrants]

@evilsrepmum666 Call the doc and get a medical opinion. I think they’ll say self isolate at yours. She can’t argue with a docs advice.

[The British Stepmum @StepmumUKrants]

BM sent 2020 annual ‘rota’ for overnight stays.We are in the 52-103nights CM category but always do the max & previously have done over 103 but BM refuses to be honest with CM. Rota says ‘103 nights plus 2 carried over from last year’ What?It’s not flexi-time love! Cheek! #unfair

[Dynamic Dad @dad_dynamic]

I'm working through the ex's bank statements for our financial hearing. I'm about half way through. So far there's 2.5k on days & meals out, and nearly 2k on fuel. That's 4.5k in 6 months for someone who only earns 16,000 a year and pays 1,100 a month in rent. ��� you do the maths