I have this thought that everything I go through is designed and created by my wiser self so if I really am struggling the holds loosen a bit but the direction doesn't change because my wiser self knows where its supposed to take me
the best thing you can do for yourself is actively increase your surface area for luck to hit you. go outside, try new cafes, museums, events, take a new route home, speak to people, ask questions, side quest.
the more you do, the more serendipity and synchronicity will find you.
i love how the world is like “wow nelson mandela, what an icon!” and south africans are like “yeah he’s alright but let me tell you about his ex-wife 😮💨”
I’ll never treat someone like they’re easily disposable. To me, that just means that to a certain degree I like wasting my time and have no intentions on building genuine connections. Nah. I take integrating someone into my life seriously.