Anti-Findom

Raising awareness of the dangers of Findom (sub POV). It is bad for you, ruins your mental health and fries your dopamine receptors. Inspired by @anti_findom_BR

[Anti-Findom @Stop_Findom_]

Why do people keep saying this? As if subs with long term experience don’t already know this and still want to quit? If it was as easy as “pick an experienced” domme there wouldn’t be any issues, would there?

[Mistress Clarissa @Clarissa_Shares]

@Stop_Findom_ Incorrect, start talking to experienced, skilled rt Dommes with happy long term subs. Differentiate between online posers and genuine lifestyle Dommes.

[Anti-Findom @Stop_Findom_]

@misspoisoncandi Weirdly defensive for reasons not very sure

[Anti-Findom @Stop_Findom_]

Most dommes don’t want to actually create a healthy dynamic that fosters communication and consent. If a sub tries to state their preferences or boundaries they get told they are ‘entitled’. On top of this, I have very rarely seen a domme admit they are wrong or be accountable

[Anti-Findom @Stop_Findom_]

@thejiggaboss Problem is the whack ass is the majority

[Anti-Findom @Stop_Findom_]

Seriously though, to the subs that actually want a healthy, measured and consensual dynamic with a domme. When is the last time you got that? When is the last time a domme actually stopped to communicate with you? When is the last time you felt human in Findom?

[Anti-Findom @Stop_Findom_]

@misspoisoncandi Also, saying “most” is the definition of not “all” so yeah, I’m literally not tarring you at all

[Anti-Findom @Stop_Findom_]

@princessamberbb Posting = engaging in Findom?

[Anti-Findom @Stop_Findom_]

Today I have decided to officially quit Findom. It is terrible for myself and also everybody. It is a glorified addiction under the guise of empowerment and play. An unregulated environment that causes so much harm to users and also minors.

[Anti-Findom @Stop_Findom_]

@sissyfairyfag @Anti_findom_BR @findomrecovery_ @PsiDoFetiche So you admit it’s a diseases / drug?

[Anti-Findom @Stop_Findom_]

I’ve noticed that it’s only really AI bots and catfish dommes replying to my tweets. That should tell you about the state of the scene more than anything.

[Anti-Findom @Stop_Findom_]

If you want to engage in the healthier version of it, I still think it’s bad but I understand it WAY more than engaging in what’s currently being practiced. ‘Send and I’m never going to ask you anything about your boundaries or needs ‘ is called what?

[Anti-Findom @Stop_Findom_]

What is being practiced for the most part is lawless Findom without the intentions or the framework for what it actually started out as. The ‘dynamic’ aspect, the consent, and the relationship has been lost. And it’s become something completely different

[Anti-Findom @Stop_Findom_]

Seriously though, to the subs that actually want a healthy, measured and consensual dynamic with a domme. When is the last time you got that? When is the last time a domme actually stopped to communicate with you? When is the last time you felt human in Findom?

[Anti-Findom @Stop_Findom_]

@princessamberbb Have I said it every other week? Or did I start posting about this yesterday? Let me know when you have an answer ❤️

[Anti-Findom @Stop_Findom_]

@hharper46 No

[Anti-Findom @Stop_Findom_]

@CDMworkout I changed my @ today - if they donated your brain to a dog it would moo

[Anti-Findom @Stop_Findom_]

@findom_culture Say more?

[Anti-Findom @Stop_Findom_]

@lesbopornaddict @Anti_findom_BR I’m sure BR has helped much more!!! But im glad you’re on the right path 👊🏿

[Anti-Findom @Stop_Findom_]

@mrtraps84 They see it as lucrative and as nobody is really gate keeping the community it’s very easy for them to get taken advantage of

[Anti-Findom @Stop_Findom_]

@Anti_findom_BR 👊🏿👊🏿

[Anti-Findom @Stop_Findom_]

Findom coerces you into thinking you can ‘send’ your way into fulfilment. The goal posts of expectation and fulfilment change and it will never be enough. It’s like being on a treadmill and someone dangling a carrot infront of you. You feel like you’re close but.. you’re not.