if i see a single person put harry potter on my timeline im blocking your ass instantly. idfc about your nostalgia the creator actively uses the rev from it to fumd trans genocide and has stated "if you like it then you support my ideals" theres no seperating it. fuck you.
i have a lot of things newly out tgirls should probably hear, do u guys want a thread?
just from being around tgirls a lot in life and growing up i’ve picked up a lot of things that should be avoided/u should do
just watched myself get unadded/blocked by a whole friend group on discord in real time with zero explanation. caught one of them before they blocked me and asked if i did anything wrong. blocked 5 minutes later, still no explanation
they'll do this when one person in the group has one sided beef with you and then they'll exacerbate every single one of your flaws and build everything up and up until an irredeemable version of you exists in their head. You likely made a small, easily fixable mistake ->
This is exactly what happened to me recently its heartbreaking and the complete lack of empathy or anyone trying to get my side of things from my past "friends" is what upsets me the most.
Cowards who find it easier to follow along with the group instead of trying to go against it
Im not a perfect person and have my flaws but the way i was treated was just cruel.
I can only hope that any future friends I have are better people
@AbysmalRae, you came into smarties on your first day with trying to "fix" people. Youre first interaction with me was to twist me asking for help with having my donators claim their milestone rewards like picking my pfp and writing me a tweet since no one was claiming either of them. You discreditted my irl situation that as you had implied in smarties you had checked my twitter so you would have seen my explanation of the situation that i am dealing with irl and thus know I can not "get a second job". that my family had me add a gps tracker to my phone so they could see where i go and ensure that im at work and forced me to give them access to my bank account so they could watch my spending. Why? My roommate getting revenge on me for calling animal control on by using my family against me when i got myself a swtich2 as a self gift for working overtime during PrimeWeek. You legit didnt even allow me to get hardly a single word in during our dms. I know already that 5k is a lot to make to flee my family I know that but i had no other choice but to try a donathon because of the irl situation. You act as if you knew better, and knew my situation better than I did. Im disabled, I am still working on getting accommodations at work. Some days i can't even walk due to how bad the pain in my back and my arm is. I can't get a loan out because I dont have credit history, score yes history no. I lost friends before when i asked them to cosign with me for a loan so i could flee last time i tried. You dont know shit or actually care. You just wanted to step on someone else to build yourself up. I was told a donathon would be a good solution by someone in smarties and that smarties itself would be glad to help me get word out. You however saw a chance to hurt someone who is in dire need and you took it happily. I even apologized to you in dms for snapping at you and you kept talking down to me.
then take my concerns seriously if "smarties is a community where its taken seriously." Ive tried to voice my concerns even when in smarties and got ignored and those concerned used as "you made me uncomfortable" when i did voice them. But no people can say slurs and dm dick pics
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